
Who I Am, Now
I’m Amy Kathleen Lee.
I’m a mental health speaker, suicide prevention specialist, and clinical social work graduate student who believes that the most important work we can do begins beneath the surface.
For more than a decade, I’ve worked in crisis intervention, youth mental health, and trauma-informed education. But my work did not begin in classrooms or on stages. It began much earlier, shaped by lived experience, long-term recovery, and a deep understanding of how pain hides behind performance, achievement, and silence.
I’ve spent my life learning what happens when we fail to look beneath the surface—and what becomes possible when we do. Today, I bring that understanding into schools, communities, and systems that are ready to move beyond awareness and toward real connection, healing, and action.
What Shaped Me
Before I ever stood on a stage or stepped into a clinical setting, I was a dancer.
I trained as a pre-professional classical ballet dancer in a world that rewarded discipline, perfection, and silence. When a career-ending spinal injury at seventeen ended that path, it opened the door to an eighteen-year battle with an eating disorder and the long, non-linear work of recovery that followed.
Those experiences shaped how I listen, how I lead, and how I understand pain that hides in plain sight.
For the full story Before I ever stood on a stage or stepped into a clinical setting, I was a dancer. I trained as a pre-professional classical ballet dancer, raised in a world that rewarded discipline, perfection, and silence. When a career-ending spinal injury at seventeen abruptly closed that chapter, it wasn’t just the loss of dance that followed. It was the unraveling of an identity built on performance and control. That rupture became the doorway into an eighteen-year battle with bulimia and the long, non-linear work of recovery that would follow. During treatment in the early 2000s, I was asked to draw what was happening beneath my surface. What emerged was a ballerina suspended from the ceiling, bound by chains I didn’t yet have language for. At the time, I couldn’t fully explain what those chains represented. Years later, I would understand them as trauma, silence, expectation, and the pressure to appear “fine” while slowly disappearing inside. Recovery did not pull me away from dance. It transformed my relationship to it. I went on to found Dancing with ED, a nonprofit serving the dance community, where advocacy, prevention, and recovery became central to my work. One of those projects, Pointing to Recovery, gathered pointe shoes from dancers across the country who had battled eating disorders. Each pair was signed and sent in as a testament to survival. Those shoes remain a reminder that healing is rarely solitary, and that stories carry power when they are shared. Living with mental illness, trauma, and recovery has never been a footnote in my work. It has shaped how I listen, how I lead, and how I understand pain that hides in plain sight. Long before I had clinical language for it, I was learning that what we see on the surface is almost never the full story. That understanding became the foundation for everything that came next.
Why I Do This Work Now
For years, my work lived at the intersection of recovery, advocacy, and education. I understood pain from the inside, and I understood systems from working alongside them. But it wasn’t until I became a parent that everything came into sharper focus.
When my daughter survived a suicide attempt, the question in front of me was no longer theoretical. It was immediate, human, and deeply personal. What I saw, again, was how often warning signs are missed not because people don’t care, but because they don’t know how to listen beneath what’s visible. Too often, we respond to behavior without understanding the pain driving it. We manage risk, but we miss the person.
That experience didn’t pull me away from this work. It clarified it.
I began to see even more clearly that prevention isn’t about saying the right thing once or checking the right box. It’s about building connection before crisis, teaching people how to stay present with discomfort, and creating spaces where honesty is safer than silence. This is where Beneath the Surface was no longer just language I used, but a framework for how healing actually happens.
Today, my work focuses on bridging worlds that are too often kept separate. Lived experience and clinical practice. Parents and professionals. Youth and the systems designed to support them. I don’t believe we change outcomes by relying on awareness alone. Change happens when people feel seen, understood, and supported long before they reach the edge.
This work matters to me because I’ve lived on both sides of the conversation. And because I know that when we listen beneath the surface, we don’t just respond differently—we change what’s possible.
This is where Beneath the Surface became more than language. It became a framework for how healing actually happens—through connection, presence, and listening before crisis.
The Work and the Training
My work is grounded in both lived experience and professional training. I am currently a clinical social work graduate student and clinical intern at an eating disorder treatment center, where I work within structured, evidence-informed systems of care.
Alongside my clinical training, I have spent more than a decade working in suicide prevention, crisis intervention, and youth mental health education, training educators, clinicians, and community leaders nationwide.
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For the full story Before I ever stood on a stage or stepped into a clinical setting, I was a dancer. I trained as a pre-professional classical ballet dancer, raised in a world that rewarded discipline, perfection, and silence. When a career-ending spinal injury at seventeen abruptly closed that chapter, it wasn’t just the loss of dance that followed. It was the unraveling of an identity built on performance and control. That rupture became the doorway into an eighteen-year battle with bulimia and the long, non-linear work of recovery that would follow. During treatment in the early 2000s, I was asked to draw what was happening beneath my surface. What emerged was a ballerina suspended from the ceiling, bound by chains I didn’t yet have language for. At the time, I couldn’t fully explain what those chains represented. Years later, I would understand them as trauma, silence, expectation, and the pressure to appear “fine” while slowly disappearing inside. Recovery did not pull me away from dance. It transformed my relationship to it. I went on to found Dancing with ED, a nonprofit serving the dance community, where advocacy, prevention, and recovery became central to my work. One of those projects, Pointing to Recovery, gathered pointe shoes from dancers across the country who had battled eating disorders. Each pair was signed and sent in as a testament to survival. Those shoes remain a reminder that healing is rarely solitary, and that stories carry power when they are shared. Living with mental illness, trauma, and recovery has never been a footnote in my work. It has shaped how I listen, how I lead, and how I understand pain that hides in plain sight. Long before I had clinical language for it, I was learning that what we see on the surface is almost never the full story. That understanding became the foundation for everything that came next.
Trust by Alignment
My work extends beyond speaking and training into advisory and collaborative roles with organizations committed to youth mental health, suicide prevention, and community-based care.
Organizations that have trusted me with their mission and community include:
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Semicolon Society Arizona
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Breaking the Chains Foundation
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Teens 4 Teens Help
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Scottsdale Youth & Community Coalition
****** Over the years, my work has extended beyond speaking and training into advisory and collaborative roles with organizations committed to youth mental health, suicide prevention, and community-based care. These relationships matter to me because they reflect shared values, long-term trust, and a willingness to do the work thoughtfully and responsibly. I have served on advisory boards and coalitions that focus on prevention, connection, and systemic change, offering both lived-experience perspective and professional insight. These roles are not symbolic. They involve contributing to program development, strategy, and education in ways that honor the populations being served. From 2016 to 2020, I partnered with Transitions Mental Health Association in San Luis Obispo, California, where I developed and delivered a youth mental health curriculum designed to support early intervention, education, and community awareness. That work remains a meaningful example of how collaboration, when done well, can create sustainable impact beyond a single event or presentation. In addition to curriculum development and advisory work, I have been trusted to represent and collaborate with organizations working at the intersection of mental health, youth advocacy, and suicide prevention. These partnerships reflect not only alignment of mission, but confidence in how I hold space, represent complex issues, and engage communities with care. Boards, Advisory & Coalition Involvement include: Semicolon Society Arizona Advisory Board Breaking the Chains Foundation Advisory Board Teens 4 Teens Help Advisory Board Scottsdale Youth and Community Coalition Transitions Mental Health Association (Curriculum Partner, 2016–2020)
For the full story Before I ever stood on a stage or stepped into a clinical setting, I was a dancer. I trained as a pre-professional classical ballet dancer, raised in a world that rewarded discipline, perfection, and silence. When a career-ending spinal injury at seventeen abruptly closed that chapter, it wasn’t just the loss of dance that followed. It was the unraveling of an identity built on performance and control. That rupture became the doorway into an eighteen-year battle with bulimia and the long, non-linear work of recovery that would follow. During treatment in the early 2000s, I was asked to draw what was happening beneath my surface. What emerged was a ballerina suspended from the ceiling, bound by chains I didn’t yet have language for. At the time, I couldn’t fully explain what those chains represented. Years later, I would understand them as trauma, silence, expectation, and the pressure to appear “fine” while slowly disappearing inside. Recovery did not pull me away from dance. It transformed my relationship to it. I went on to found Dancing with ED, a nonprofit serving the dance community, where advocacy, prevention, and recovery became central to my work. One of those projects, Pointing to Recovery, gathered pointe shoes from dancers across the country who had battled eating disorders. Each pair was signed and sent in as a testament to survival. Those shoes remain a reminder that healing is rarely solitary, and that stories carry power when they are shared. Living with mental illness, trauma, and recovery has never been a footnote in my work. It has shaped how I listen, how I lead, and how I understand pain that hides in plain sight. Long before I had clinical language for it, I was learning that what we see on the surface is almost never the full story. That understanding became the foundation for everything that came next.
Professional Bio
Amy Kathleen Lee is a mental health speaker, suicide prevention specialist, and MSW graduate student with over a decade of experience in crisis intervention, youth mental health, and trauma-informed education, as well as more than 30 years of lived recovery experience. As the founder of Speaking From the Scars, LLC, Amy has trained over 1,000 educators, clinicians, and community leaders in suicide prevention and has educated more than 5,000 youth nationwide through keynotes, workshops, and storytelling that bridges lived experience with clinical insight. Her work equips audiences to move beyond awareness toward connection, healing, and meaningful action. Amy is a recognized advisor to nonprofit boards and a sought-after speaker who collaborates with schools, organizations, and mental health professionals to reimagine how communities talk about trauma, resilience, and recovery. She is known for creating spaces where survivors feel seen, heard, and supported in speaking from their own scars. She is currently completing her Master of Social Work (Clinical Track) at Capella University, where she has maintained a 4.0 GPA and has been inducted into the Phi Alpha National Honor Society. Her advocacy and leadership have been honored with the Love Warrior Award by Eating Disorder Recovery Support.
For the full story Before I ever stood on a stage or stepped into a clinical setting, I was a dancer. I trained as a pre-professional classical ballet dancer, raised in a world that rewarded discipline, perfection, and silence. When a career-ending spinal injury at seventeen abruptly closed that chapter, it wasn’t just the loss of dance that followed. It was the unraveling of an identity built on performance and control. That rupture became the doorway into an eighteen-year battle with bulimia and the long, non-linear work of recovery that would follow. During treatment in the early 2000s, I was asked to draw what was happening beneath my surface. What emerged was a ballerina suspended from the ceiling, bound by chains I didn’t yet have language for. At the time, I couldn’t fully explain what those chains represented. Years later, I would understand them as trauma, silence, expectation, and the pressure to appear “fine” while slowly disappearing inside. Recovery did not pull me away from dance. It transformed my relationship to it. I went on to found Dancing with ED, a nonprofit serving the dance community, where advocacy, prevention, and recovery became central to my work. One of those projects, Pointing to Recovery, gathered pointe shoes from dancers across the country who had battled eating disorders. Each pair was signed and sent in as a testament to survival. Those shoes remain a reminder that healing is rarely solitary, and that stories carry power when they are shared. Living with mental illness, trauma, and recovery has never been a footnote in my work. It has shaped how I listen, how I lead, and how I understand pain that hides in plain sight. Long before I had clinical language for it, I was learning that what we see on the surface is almost never the full story. That understanding became the foundation for everything that came next.
Why This Work Matters Now
We are living in a time where pain is increasingly visible, but not always understood. Anxiety, depression, eating disorders, self-harm, and suicidal ideation are rising—especially among young people—yet our responses too often stay on the surface. We talk about awareness, but we avoid the harder work of presence. We manage risk, but we struggle to make space for truth.
My work exists because awareness alone is not enough.
What changes lives is connection. What interrupts crisis is relationship. What sustains healing is the willingness to stay with discomfort long enough to understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. I believe our communities don’t need more polished programs or perfect language. They need spaces where people can be honest without fear, where pain is met with compassion instead of judgment, and where no one has to carry their struggles alone.
This work matters now because the cost of not listening is too high. When we fail to slow down, to look deeper, and to stay connected, we risk losing people who never wanted to die—they just wanted the pain to stop. I have seen what happens when silence is broken, when someone finally feels seen, and when support arrives before the breaking point.
I do this work because I believe we can change outcomes by changing how we show up for one another. When we listen beneath the surface, we don’t just respond differently—we change what’s possible.
Speaking From the Scars: From the Wounds to the Woman I Am
How the stories that broke me became the stories that built me
Description
In this deeply personal keynote, Amy shares her journey through eating disorders, trauma, bipolar disorder, suicidality, and recovery — and the redemptive process that transformed her wounds into scars. With raw honesty and grounded hope, she invites audiences to reframe their own stories: not as evidence of damage, but as proof of survival.
Through storytelling and reflection, this keynote explores healing as integration rather than erasure, and the courage it takes to live forward without denying what shaped us.
Audience Fit
Conferences, women’s events, survivor gatherings, universities, and organizations focused on trauma recovery, mental health, or empowerment.

Speaking from the scars so others know they’re not alone.

About Amy
Amy Kathleen Lee is a mental health speaker, suicide prevention specialist, and MSW graduate student with over a decade of experience in crisis intervention, youth mental health, and trauma-informed education, and more than 30 years of lived recovery experience.
As the founder of Speaking From the Scars, LLC, Amy has trained over 1,000 individuals in suicide prevention and educated more than 5,000 youth nationwide through keynotes, workshops, and storytelling that bridge lived experience with clinical insight. Her work empowers audiences to move beyond awareness toward connection, healing, and action.
A recognized advisor to nonprofit boards and a sought-after speaker, Amy collaborates with organizations, schools, and mental health professionals to reimagine how communities talk about trauma, resilience, and recovery. She is passionate about creating spaces where survivors feel seen, heard, and equipped to speak from their own scars.
Amy is currently completing her Master of Social Work (Clinical Track) at Capella University, where she has maintained a 4.0 GPA and has been inducted into the Phi Alpha National Honor Society. Her work has been honored with the Love Warrior Award (2018) by the Eating Disorder Resource Support organization for her advocacy and leadership.
Through her speaking, training, and advisory roles, Amy continues to lead a movement that brings compassion, courage, and connection to the forefront of mental health conversations on stages, in schools, and within systems that need change.

“Tell the story of the mountain you climbed. Your words could become a page in someone else's survival guide.”
- Morgan Harper Nichols
Education & Experience
Higher Education
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Graduate Student at Capella University, studying Clinical Social Work
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Bachelors in Human Services, University of Phoenix, 2008
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National Certification in Massage Therapist, 2001

Certifications
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Certified Online Counseling and Suicide Intervention Specialist, 2022 to present
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Youth Mental Health First Aid Trainer, 2017 - 2020
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Q.P.R. Trainer, 2016 - present
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NAMI Ending the Silence Facilitator, 2017

Awards & Honors
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Love Warrior Award, 2018; Recognized by Eating Disorder Recovery Support (EDRS), Non-Profit
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National Counsel of Phi Alpha Honor Society

Memberships
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Arizona Suicide Prevention Coalition
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National Association of Social Workers
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Mental Health American Advocacy Network
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Member of NAMI Valley of the Sun
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National Speakers Association
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Mental Health American Arizona

Boards/Advisory
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Semicolon Society Arizona Advisory Board
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Scottsdale Youth and Community Coalition Member
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Teens 4 Teens Help Advisory Board
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Breaking the Chains Foundation Advisory Board

Partnerships (Current & past)
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I Am Teen Strong
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Scottsdale Youth and Community Coalition
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Teens 4 Teens Help
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Earth's Edge Wellness Ambassador (2024-2025)
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Semicolon Society of Arizona
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Transitions Mental Health Association, 2017-2020


Specializations:
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Youth Mental Health Education
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Dance community, Mental Health Advocacy and Eating Disorder Awareness
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Eating Disorder Prevention
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Suicide Prevention Training for School Staff & Parents of Youth
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Healing & Recovery from Trauma & Abuse

Over
1000
Faculty, Counselors & Administrators were trained in either QPR or YMHFA

Student Leaders were trained in QPR
160
Over

Over
5,000
students experienced Amy's classroom presentations

schools or school districts and colleges
25
Spoken at

Dance
Amy founded her nonprofit organization, Dancing with E.D. (Eating Disorders), Inc. in 2013 to raise awareness of eating disorders in the dance community and inspire dancers to love and care for their bodies. Dancing with E.D. is where Amy gives back and uses her passion and creative energy to create projects, including a dance show, workshops, a camp for young dancers. She wants dancers to know they don't have to dance through their struggles alone.
Events & Workshops
Dance Show - Stages of Change: A Dancer’s Body Journey 2019
Workshop Series:
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Sharing Space As We Shelter In Place, 2020
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Voting for Me .... during the election and beyond, 2020
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I am Enough: A Body Journey Workshop, for dancers, 2016
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I am Enough: A Body Journey Workshop, for ED treatment professionals, 2017
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Body Talk, workshop for dancers of all ages, 2016
Camps
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Mind. Body. Heart. A Mindfulness, Movement and Expressive He’arts Camp 2020
Other projects:
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Pointing to Recovery Project
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Share My Story, Social Media Project, 2021







